True Friends are the real gems in the treasure of life. We met lots of people all over our life from neighborhood to school to college to our working places. But some people get very close to our heart and they become a part of our life and them we call friends. Some friends come and go from our life with time but some remain to stay throughout our life. They are with us in every up and down, and share our joy and sorrow.
Some of Best Quotes:
“True friends are those who came into your life, saw the most negative part of you, but are not ready to leave you, no matter how contagious you are to them.”― Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign
We always have a good time with our friends. But the question arises, Is friendship good for us? Is our every friend is right for us? Is it right to judge friends or friendship? Did we choose the right friend cleverly?
How we Judge True friends:
There is an easy way to judge. One kind of friendship is where everyone has a good time doing something together, like going to a restaurant or movie together. Having fun together, outing, lots of talks and gossip, a bit of laugh, and then go to their own places. We have lots of this kind of friends in our life that share their spare time with us.
Then comes the second kind of friendship, where we share what’s closest to our heart. We trust them and believe them as our well-wisher. Talk to them about our plans, goals, strengths, and as well as weaknesses too. We know they want the best for us and always give the right suggestions. Even they also give correct feedback and never hesitate to tell when we go wrong. They tell us the things that sometimes hurt us, things that we never want to hear, things that no one tells us.
With the first kind of friends, we share a good time we have fun with them. But it is the second of friends that makes us grow, they keep us on the right track. They are a real mentor and well-wisher. It is the second kind of friend that helps us to see everything with open eyes clearly. They are always supportive and motivate us. They always want us to grow and succeed.
To know about true friends check out the link belowhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/bottoms/201610/7-traits-true-friendship
What If We Choose Wrong Person:
We can have the first kind of friendship with anybody we met regularly that share similar interests with us. But the second kind of friend is hard to find. The real challenge is to choose the right person for the second kind of friendship. If we choose the wrong person, there is a danger, they will betray us. Only time will tell they are or wrong for us. But the time it is too late when we came to know who is right or who is wrong. So we have to choose the right person for friendship.
Some of Best Quotes:
“A messy house is a must – it separates your true friends from other friends.
Real friends are there to visit you not your house!”― Jennifer Wilson
If we have found the right person who is a true friend, completely trustworthy, and good for the second kind of friendship then we are blessed. We have found a real gem in our life.